
Article Excerpt:
You can’t control how other people see you, so needing — or demanding — that someone else understand your perspective has always seemed like a flaw to me. And depending on the approval of others feels risky because there is no guarantee you’ll actually get it.
That’s why I was surprised when Caroline Fleck, an adjunct clinical instructor at Stanford University, told me that the “biggest misconception” about validation is that we should not seek it.
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